There are many ways to see yourself. One who Manages things? Controls the situation?
Are you the Fixer? The Appeaser?
Perhaps you are one who Bucks Up? Slides By?
Is pressure to get things right a burden for you? How about to look good?
Everything changes when you adopt a reality that life is an Adventure. You see yourself as an Explorer. An Experimenter.
You are one who does things differently.
The true Explorer tends to not lose. The Experimenter learns from successes and dead ends.
The future unfolds from the present.
Even death is an Adventure.
Today, love someone being the Explorer.